rambling on…changes, and some bugs

So things have been their usual nuttyness here. It was Garin’s birthday on Tuesday and I got to take him and three of his pals to Albany to go to the skatepark there. It was hot..and the place had no A/C and neither does my car. ANd I sat there for 5 hours and read “Adoption Nation”..most of it. And sweated. Tell me I am a good mom.

My poor dog..she has fleas sooo bad. Our back yard, desopite getting sprayed, and having a ton of borax dumped in it..is a flea bowl. The kids can’t go out, the dog cannot go out..and that means more accidents form her since we never walked her to “go” so she has to learn. SHe gets a bath every day..but she is a white dog and they have sensitive skin ans she looks a mess. SHe had a reaction to Frontline, and is on Benadryl for weeks. She hets Cortizone anti itch creame and neosproun on her cuts.( she is eating herself alive) She gets a soothing skin oatmean conditioner. I am sick of wet dog towels.

To add icing on top…Scralett had LICE! EWWW Yuck nasty nasty nasty. Her freaking school has been known to be a hot bed of lice. When I was a single mommy and my housemates daughter went there..she always was catching lice. My daughters hair is down to her butt. It took me over two hours to comb it out and it was a bug party in there.

My dear Rye has put in his notice on his job. I can’t blame him, the man he works fopr is a nasty abusive alcoholic..and really treats my dear man as crap. So now Rye has started up a Lawn Service??? Whatever…just bring me money dear..and if you can be happy while doing so..great. I am crossing my fingers.

The kids and I head out to the beach in 9 days!! My first real vacation in 6 years!! I am very happy. We are goin with friends who have a family beach house on Long Beach island in jersey…two dads that are Culiary Chefs, three momma friends for like 16 years..and our 7 kids..maybe 8 if garin decides to go.Oh and LOTS of booze!!And it should be very intersting as KT is my IRL non adopted effected friend who gets it..and Wendy has worked forever for social services!!! O my!!

I haven’t heard from Dateline,any agencys I write to, Max’s folks, or Max..though he did leave a birthday coment to garin and said “say hi to mom” I messaged him back and said “say hi yourself you booger!” Yeah, that was tuesday.

OMG Soul of adoption is BACK up!!!Yeah!

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Musings of the Lame was started in 2005 primarily as a simple blog recording the feelings of a birthmother as she struggled to understand how the act of relinquishing her first newborn so to adoption in 1987 continued to be a major force in her life. Built from the knowledge gained in the adoption community, it records the search for her son and the adoption reunion as it happened. Since then, it has grown as an adoption forum encompassing the complexity of the adoption industry, the fight to free her sons adoption records and the need for Adoptee Rights, and a growing community of other birthmothers, adoptive parents and adopted persons who are able to see that so much what we want to believe about adoption is wrong.

3 Comments on "rambling on…changes, and some bugs"

  1. i’m effected and i get it. yeah, lotsa booze! w + j may not be able to come till friday :(. KT

  2. I love LBI. It’s my favorite beach! You are going to have a great time!

  3. Soooo white trash.

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