When Only the Rich Deserve to Have Sex

Rye is a news junkie and sometimes I just have to be a pain and make him turn it off. As much as I love a good Rachel Maddow snarky fest, sometimes I just cannot take how incredible STUPID our elect politicians in Washington can be. It’s almost harder to watch their antics on TRMS or on Jon Stewart because it’s then so damn obvious how unrealistic and ideological and puritanical and judgmental theses goons in Washington can be. And yes, I usually do end up meaning the Republicans. I try to be fair, but the way I see it in general, the National Republican Party just hates women.

Idiots in the House..of Congress

For instance, watching the countdown last Friday night and wondering if these idiots could possible come to an agreement and deal with the budget so that the whole damn government did not have to shut down made me almost break down into hysterical crying. And here’s why:

So they were all fighting over the budget cuts. OK.. yes, we have to balance the budget; yes the federal deficit is scary; yes, I get all that, but even the reporters at the zero hour could not say whether or not the holdup was a mysterious number that the politicians could not possible reach or whether the sticking point was due to policy.

Attacking the Women of America Through Planned Parenthood

By policy, we mean Planned Parenthood. I’m going to assume that you already know about how House Republicans voted to strip federal funding from Planned Parenthood, cutting money for contraceptives, HIV tests, cancer screenings and reproductive health services . Why did they do that? because Planned parenthood provides abortions. Of course, Planned Parenthood does not currently spend federal money on abortion services, but that does not matter. They just want to CLOSE Planned Parenthood completely so they can “save unborn babies”.

So I take that to heart and it makes me cry because what it says to me is that the elected politicians in this country want women to suffer. They want women to feel like me. Or rather, they don’ t give a shit about me, or Max, or you, or my daughter or your daughter or you, they only care about some IDEA that makes them feel all warm and fuzzy at night and gets them elected.

What the Republicans are saying when they try to destroy Planned Parenthood is this:

You have no right to control your fertility or reproductive health. We aren’t even going to let you try anymore. For now on, you better not have sex unless you are 100% completely and totally ready to have a baby and raise it.

  • If you are young, then you can’t have sex because we won’t let you have an affordable place to get birth control.
  • If you are poor, then you can’t have sex because we won’t let you have an affordable place to get birth control.
  • If you get raped and have sex, then it must be your own damn fault and you better hope you don’t get pregnant because we won’t let you have a place where you can have a safe and affordable abortion.
  • If your birth control fails, then you are an idiot because you shouldn’t have had sex to begin with and you have to now pay because we won’t let you have access to the day after pills or a safe abortion.

When Sex is Only for Those With Money

So you better be perfect and only dare to have sex if you are well off and can afford to have a baby, because if you are poor, then we have taken away a lot of your medical funding as well. In fact, we hope you are married and to a real man who brings home the bacon because working might be difficult since we are wanting to cut out day care funding too. Basically, if you aren’t financially well off, then you better not ever even think about having sex again until you get your act together and make some more money. No one else deserves to have sex.  You feaking lazy poor people? It’s your own damn fault that you can’t afford to have sex. At least the women…
Anyone else that has sex and gets knocked up, well you better just deal. That’s what you get for spreading your legs. Don’t want that baby? Then give it to someone who deserves it more than you and who is ready to spend money on that baby.
So that’s the choice that the Republicans want to give to women in America who are not wealthy. Don’t have sex, or if you do, then get ready to live the life of a birthmother. You have no other options.
And people say the Handmaiden’s Tale is a work of fiction? No, it’s a wet dream of the Republicans in this country.
My rant to the TV on Friday night was actually simpler and much better in its rage. It hit such a core in me that I was seconds away from crying.
Rye changed the channel.

About the Author

Claudia Corrigan DArcy
Claudia Corrigan D’Arcy has been online and involved in the adoption community since early in 2001. Blogging since 2005, her website Musings of the Lame has become a much needed road map for many mothers who relinquished, adoptees who long to be heard, and adoptive parents who seek understanding. She is also an activist and avid supporter of Adoptee Rights and fights for nationwide birth certificate access for all adoptees with the Adoptee Rights Coalition. Besides here on Musings of the Lame, her writings on adoption issue have been published in The New York Times, BlogHer, Divine Caroline, Adoption Today Magazine, Adoption Constellation Magazine, Adopt-a-tude.com, Lost Mothers, Grown in my Heart, Adoption Voice Magazine, and many others. She has been interviewed by Dan Rather, Montel Williams and appeared on Huffington Post regarding adoption as well as presented at various adoption conferences, other radio and print interviews over the years. She resides in New York’s Hudson Valley with her husband, Rye, children, and various pets.

6 Comments on "When Only the Rich Deserve to Have Sex"

  1. It’s horrifying, watching from afar, just can’t believe this is happening.Then again when I see some of the stuff that comes along about entitlement to save orphans, adopt and the views of the judgemental and closed minded I suppose I’m not surprised.

  2. I was spouting plenty about Senator Boner and the Tea Bag party myself over the Planned Parenthood.

    Absolutely disgusting!

    Many of the services provided by Planned Parenthood actually PREVENTS unplanned pregnancies, which reduces abortions!

    I am pro-Choice, but if that is their argument– to prevent abortions– they should be sending PP MORE money!

  3. I believe history will show the defunding of PP to be one of the most expensive blunders the ‘pubs have ever made.

  4. I simply viewed that move as a way to ensure the supply met the demand…call me jaded…but how many conservatives if they had the guts to be honest – simply want society to go back to the way it was during the Baby Scoop Era…

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