Why Won’t Adoption by Gentle Care Just Give Camden Back to Carri?

This is the million dollar question. We have said from the very beginning that they should have just admit a mistake and given him back in April, but Adoption by Gentle Care has simply refused.

According to their own case notes, after the original adoptive family returned Camden, they consider returning him, but the AGC counsel told them not to. We don’t really know why except to call him a few choice names. We think that they did not believe that Carri would continue fighting as so many mothers and fathers in similar situations do not have the ability to fight.

At one point they told Carri’s legal team that they did consider it, but then she went to the media and now they had to defend their reputation.  Their notes say that she must be “punished” for speaking out; I believe the quote is ” Let’s punish her.”

In court, they told the Appeals Court Judge that they needed “vindication” by going to trial when she asked the same thing about returning the baby.

After the initial trail, which they did win,  they were approached again and asked to do the humane thing and just give Camden back now that they had their public vindication. They said no again.

About the Author

Claudia Corrigan DArcy
Claudia Corrigan D’Arcy has been online and involved in the adoption community since early in 2001. Blogging since 2005, her website Musings of the Lame has become a much needed road map for many mothers who relinquished, adoptees who long to be heard, and adoptive parents who seek understanding. She is also an activist and avid supporter of Adoptee Rights and fights for nationwide birth certificate access for all adoptees with the Adoptee Rights Coalition. Besides here on Musings of the Lame, her writings on adoption issue have been published in The New York Times, BlogHer, Divine Caroline, Adoption Today Magazine, Adoption Constellation Magazine, Adopt-a-tude.com, Lost Mothers, Grown in my Heart, Adoption Voice Magazine, and many others. She has been interviewed by Dan Rather, Montel Williams and appeared on Huffington Post regarding adoption as well as presented at various adoption conferences, other radio and print interviews over the years. She resides in New York’s Hudson Valley with her husband, Rye, children, and various pets.